I recalled this morning a defining moment not long after I’d met CEF. Unfortunately, it was not defining enough for me to run like the clappers.
My younger son and I were playing badminton at our old house, something we’d often do from the time he was big enough to swing a racquet.
CEF drove in. He stood there. I looked up and asked if he’d like to join in. He said nah. We continued to finish the game and I glanced at CEF. He had the absolute look of hatred on his face. I didn’t recognise it as such back then, my thought was, gee, he looks angry…he might be a bit jealous or something. ???? Weird. Surely not.
But, I quickly finished the game with my son and went inside.
From what I now know of CEF, he would have been absolutely seething, and I’d say the only thing that stopped him from getting back in his ute and taking off was that it was early days, and he didn’t want me to see that side of him…yet.
That’s 12 years ago, and my son and I have never played badminton again. And if things were different, even though he’s a man now with a family, I know that at any time if those racquets were in sight, we’d find a clear area on the grass and have a bash and a laugh.
Little did I know that day, that the path I’d chosen would mean that other than maybe once a year, if I’m lucky, my son would not visit me again, let alone grab a badminton racquet and have some fun.
Hindsight.
If only…